Love the People and Use the Things

The title sounds repeated?? Yeah this is to be repeated every single day! I would strongly recommend that every human on earth should repeat this sentence to themselves as soon as he or she wakes up in the wee hours of the day or during the dawn of his or her time, so that it can be ruminated in his or her mind during the day's work.

In present world, the people are moving with celerity. And why not?? Everyone have their own aspirations, zeal and self-made promises to consummate. Even I am one among them. During my career of 3 years and 8 months, which is completed today, there are numerous instances where I've done things against people's will. But those were important at that point of time, nothing on personal terms. It was with hard heart, to be done, keeping the focus on my dreams. I followed the corporate concepts of becoming a big boss! But now when I realize about those instances, I feel I could have done the same things with a different approach. Some big bosses today have nothing but their post as their best companions. If that companionship is given up, they have nothing but abhorrence from the peers and other fellow associates who were "used" as ladder for their upliftment. But seeing this video clip a few days back, changed my outlook for accomplishing my dreams.

Out around the globe, there are lots more such stories taking place. I would like to share this clip with all those who are aware and those who are unware or slipped to think that "People are to be loved and Things are to be used".

It is, indeed a very touching and strong presentation made by Randy Pausch, an American professor of Computer Science and Human-Computer Interaction and Design at Carnegie Mellon University, Pittsburgh in Pennsylvania. During his presentation, he was aware of his pancreatic cancer. Yet his humor and positive message to the audience was so strong during his last days. A must watch and to give thought upon!

Just a touching sentence

Sometimes people attain the state of arid in finding the apt emotional support, that when they do not find one, the touching sentences like below gets framed


Kabhi kisi ko mukammal jahaan nahi milta, kahin zami to kahin aasmaa nahi milta,
Jise bhi dekhiye vo apne aap mein gum hai, zubaa mili hai magar humzubaa nahi milta,
Bujhaa saka hai bhala kaun vaqt ke shole, ye aisi aag hai jisme dhuaa nahi milta,
Tere jahaan mein aisa nahi ki pyaar na ho, jahaa ummeed ho iski vahaan nahi milta.

Waiting........

• Waiting for the world to change.  
• Waiting for me to be the supreme power that the rest of the earth bows down to.
• Waiting for a future that is better than the past.
• Waiting to find the courage, to turn my dreams into reality instead of just waiting by, while others take my dreams and turn it into their reality.
• Waiting for the day that I can finally say I own every materialistic thing on my wish list and not possibly want for anything more.
• Waiting for someone to give me the inspiration to be the writer I want to be, get my work published, and have it read by people who can be honest about it.
• Waiting for someone to tell me, my dream land is just that and give me a huge reality check.
• Waiting to not be judged by my gender, looks, or age.
• Waiting to meet one person who ‘really’ is different from everyone else.
• Waiting for someone who really will accept me for who I am, remaining the same, yet constantly changing.
• Waiting for someone to understand that I can be the same and yet change.
• Waiting for someone to remain the same always, even if I might change. :-p
• Waiting for my friends to realize that if they must, they should think of setting me up with someone I could actually like :-p
• Waiting for someone who cares, and isn’t afraid to show it.
• Waiting for someone who understands when to keep things to them selves.
• Waiting for someone who would try to break past my walls of self defense and stay.
• Waiting for someone who won’t leave, because people always do.
• Waiting for someone, who like me believes that loving someone is more important that being in love with them.
• Waiting for someone who actually means what they say.

Waiting for the world to realize that I can only try so much and wait for so long, before I give up.

PS: Was sometime back thinking about what I am waiting for and reading these related stuffs online. Its been late; finally its up here and am happy for it.

Courtesy: A few of these lines in above are taken from the distributed online portals.

Distinct worldly emotions in rhythmic forms

A very Happy New Year 2010 to all avid readers!!! I wish all visitors to this blog fulfil dreams and goals, may you get opportunity to explore new boulevards, imbibe trust, belief, and may you get gifted with bright and happy moments.

This new year, let me start off with writing which represents different emotions of worldly beings.

Dance - one can consider it as a non verbal communication between humans or animals. One can also explain the correct definition of dance depending on the social, artistic, aesthetic or moral constraints. Dance have evolved many styles - Breakdance and Krumping are related to Hip-Hop, African dance is interpretive while Ballroom has many forms of dance evolved in it. India-the land of diversity, has dance forms to each of its diverse religion. To know more about Indian dance forms, I request you to visit www.culturalindia.net/indian-dance/index.html

Dance evinces love, life, celebrations and it also reveals melancholy, ferocity, anxiety or agony - Succinctly, it can represent any emotion of life.

Here, I love to share some information on Ballroom Dance forms along with its relation to conventional human emotions.

There are many Ballroom dance forms, nevertheless, due to my limited knowledge on them, I have listed a few here along with video templates of each dance forms. I hope you would like it as much as I and my friends enjoyed practicing these forms :)

Consider the situation where a man meets a beautiful lady at a club and they spontaneously fall in love. The man asks her for a dance and they both start dancing Waltz.


Thereafter, they start sharing the gleeful moments of everyday life. To represent this in the form of a dance filled with fun and festive, they dance is Samba-a Brazillian dance form.

The man now decides to propose the lady. Awaiting for this beautiful moment of her life, the lady immediately says yes to the man on his proposal. They now celebrate their happiness dancing Jive, a dance form originated in the US by African-Americans.

The days went on and the lovers fall in petty tiffs on small issues. Consider the situation where the man makes his lady love wait for long at a cafe for a rendezvous, due to some reason (say, traffic on way). After unsuccessful attempts to convince his lady, they both express their belligerent emotion in the form of a dance - Tango, an African dance. Tango means bringing the two together and resuscitating their love :)

Any dance can also be combined with other and give it a new name. For ex: "Salsa Sutra". Salsa is a Latin dance form from New York and Sutra is a Sanskrit word which means the scriptural narration. Lets us now see how these two forms combine to make an entertainment.

PS: Dear readers, I have been away from my writings for a long time. This was because of being occupied with something or other. Going forward, I will try to keep myself regular here. I am trying to keep my blog up to date :) Thanks for spending time in reading here. See you soon again!